How to Celebrate Your 30th Anniversary in Style

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Traditionally known as the pearl wedding anniversary, your 30th anniversary deserves all the attention it can get. After all, you’ve got a lot to celebrate – you’ve created memories spanning over three decades, your kids are probably all grown up and you’ve built a solid relationship. A festive celebration is definitely due! Read on for the perfect traditional anniversary gifts for her,  the best gifts for parents, top romantic anniversary ideas, plus a look at the meaning of the pearl milestone.

Pearls – The Symbols of the 30th Wedding Anniversary

Long-lasting and ever-growing, the 30th anniversary signifies a deep bond, a solid relationship molded by experiences and perfected in time – similar to a pearl. As the traditional symbol of the 30th anniversary, pearls represent everlasting love, purity and grace. After all, pearls are strongly connected with the idea of love. The legend says that Cleopatra herself crushed a large pearl, then drank it, in a gesture meant to show Marc Anthony her everlasting love.

If you’re sticking with tradition, there’s no doubt about it: pearl jewelry is the go-to gift for this major milestone. But if you are also on the hunt for ideas for a present with a modern twist, make sure to keep all these in mind:

  • Traditional 30th Anniversary Gift: Pearl
  • Modern 30th Anniversary Gift: Diamond
  • Gemstone: Pearl
  • Flower: Lily
  • Color: Green
What is traditional gift for 30th anniversary?

The traditional 30th anniversary gift is pearls, which is why pearl necklaces, pearl bracelets and rings are the most popular gift choices for ladies. Traditional 30th anniversary gifts for men include pearl tiepins or mother of pearl cufflinks.

What is the symbol for 30 years of marriage?

The 30 year anniversary is known as the Pearl Wedding. Long-lasting, solid and signifying a strong bond, the 30th wedding anniversary is represented by the symbol of wisdom, purity and love: the pearl.

What do you give your husband for 30th anniversary?

Traditional gifts for men on the 30th anniversary include the symbol of the milestone: pearls. Special gifts include pearl tiepins, pearl or mother of pearl cufflinks and mother of pearl watches.

30th Anniversary Gifts for Her

A Timelessly Elegant Pearl Necklace

Pearl Necklace as 30th Anniversary Gift

When talking about gifts for her, it simply doesn’t get more traditional than pearl anniversary gifts. Delight your loved one with a stunning pearl necklace featuring classic white South Sea pearls, aka the most valuable gems of the sea available on the market. Classic and elegant, a pearl necklace offered on this special occasion is the perfect heirloom piece to be passed to the next generations of lucky wearers. To find out more about pearl color options, watch our video below.

Our Pick: The 9-12mm White South Sea Pearl Necklace-AAAA Quality

White South Sea Pearl Necklace


The Pearl Source’s Pearl Necklaces come in the widest range of colors, pearl sizes and lengths, catering to every customer and every occasion. Opt for ultra-lustrous Japanese Akoya Pearls to accompany a power suit, shine in the iridescent Tahitian gems or look chic in Golden Pearls, ideal for a formal event.

Black Pearl Earrings

Black Pearl Earrings as 30th Anniversary Gift

If classic whites are not her style, aim for the perfect anniversary gift for her combo: pearls and diamonds – the ideal merge between traditional and modern. White gems might be the go-to choice for most, but nothing compares with the enigmatic charm of Black Tahitian Pearls for an added touch of mystery to an evening look.

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Our Pick: The Tahitian South Sea Pearl & Diamond Serena Earrings

Mother of Pearl Accessories

30th anniversary gift shell clutch

Pearls are the classic go-to choice for the 30th anniversary – and the next in line is their mother – literally. Mother of pearl is currently trending, which works in your favor when on the hunt for the perfect iridescent nacre gift. Avoid the faux mother of pearl and shell items on the market and go for the real thing when shopping for your love – whether that’s a mother of pearl serving bowl, a slim belt with a nacre buckle or a chic shell clutch, ideal for destination weddings on the beach.

Our Pick: The Shell Clutch Macabebe

Pearl Powder Beauty Products

Pear Powder as 30th Anniversary Gift

When classic pearls feel a bit too predictable for your tastes, then opt for an alternative gift that is still traditional, but with an unexpected twist: pearl beauty products. Pearls, pearl powder and everything else pearl, from highlighters to face masks are currently giving the beauty industry an upgrade. Join the craze and delight your loved one with a must-have pearl powder beauty product that promises to offer that iridescent glow of the treasure of the seas.

Our Pick: The BECCA Pearl Glow Luster Glow Powder

Golden Glam Pearl Bracelet

If you’re aiming for shine, brilliance and dazzle, this next pearl anniversary gift is a catch. One of the traditional anniversary gifts for her, but with a modern spin. Forgo the classic rounds and whites when shopping for a lady who loves surprises. Instead, embrace the golden glam of South Sea Pearls in one-of-a-kind baroque shapes.

Our Pick: The 10-11mm Baroque Shaped Golden South Sea Pearl Bracelet



Golden Pearls have the power to transform any outfit with a glamorous dose of shine and warmth. Pearl wedding anniversary gifts that stand the test of time: Golden Pearl Necklaces, Bracelets, Earrings, Rings and Pendants for a memorable evening look that will not go unnoticed.

30th Anniversary Gifts for Him

A Mother of Pearl Watch

Mother of Pearl Watch

When shopping for pearl anniversary gifts for him, stick with the classics. Neutral tones, versatile pieces and timeless elegance simply can’t miss the mark for your 30th anniversary. He probably already owns a staple everyday watch, but how about an anniversary special piece featuring mother of pearl. It’s elegant and it adds a subtle shimmer to a day-to-night look.

Our Pick: The Tag Heuer Carrera Mother-of-Pearl Watch

Mother of Pearl Cufflinks

Elevate his dapper appeal in one go with a pair of mother of pearl cufflinks. Suitable for formal wear, daytime suits and crisp button-down, cufflinks make an instant style statement – and nacre finishes bring that dose of luster a power suit often calls for.

Our Pick: The Laguna Pearl Mother of Pearl Hexagon Cufflinks

An Elegant Mother of Pearl Pen

Mother of Pearl Pen

From the anniversary gifts for him that stand the test of time collection: a classic fountain pen in a luxurious finish. Upgrade his office supplies with a gorgeous mother of pearl pen, meticulously built, strong and resilient – just like your long-lasting relationship.

Our pick: The Laban Mother of Pearl Fountain Pen

A Solitaire Pearl Bracelet

Solitaire Pearl Bracelet

Meet the perfect accessory for a smart-casual look that’s effortlessly trendy, fresh and timeless. For a gentleman with a flair of jewelry and accessories, it doesn’t get any better than this. For your 30th anniversary, delight your husband with a solitaire pearl bracelet, perfect for layering with leather bracelets or a daytime watch.

Our Pick: The Laguna Pearl South Sea Baroque Pearl Bracelet

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A Minimalist Pearl Tie Pin

Pearl Tie Pin

Stylish husbands deserve an arsenal of equally elegant accessories. Upgrade his formal suit with the perfect tie pin enriched with a crisp white pearl, ideal for nighttime attire, weddings and special occasions – like your anniversary party.

Our Pick: The Sophie Breitmeyer Tie Pin with Pearl

30th Anniversary Gift Ideas for Parents & Couples

Mother of Pearl Photo Frames

When shopping for your parents or a couple celebrating their 30th anniversary, the décor / home isle is the best place to start. Special memories need to be shared – and the best way to help the happy couple do so is with the help of elegant photo frames, crafted from iridescent mother of pearl.

Our Pick: The Pottery Barn Patchwork Mother of Pearl Frames

Mother of Pearl Coasters

Mother of Pearl Coasters

If you’re hunting for gifts for parents that are both practical and aesthetically pleasing, settle on mother of pearl. Upgrade their tablescape game with a set of mother of pearl coasters, ideal for the couple who loves to host. Alternatively, pair up your present with a set of mother of pearl cutting boards to match the elegant 30th anniversary theme.

Our Pick: The Ladorada Mother-of-Pearl Luxe Coaster Box Set

Unique Pieces of (Pearly) Art


Not too thrilled about mainstream gifts for parents? No worries. Personalized, handmade gifts are definitely a great choice when shopping for your parents or the couple who has it all. For an artsy couple, don’t be afraid of thinking out of the box and opting for a unique gift that makes a statement.

Our Pick: The Anniversary Pearl Wire Tree

Pearl Napkin Rings

Pearl Napkin Rings

Talking about an elevated tablescape, gift the lovely couple a set of pearl napkin rings, perfect for their anniversary party ahead. Perfect as gifts for parents, napkin rings add that touch of elegant glam to their dinner parties.

Our Pick: The Kim Seybert Napkin Rings in Ivory and Gold

Pearl Glaze Finishes

Pearl Glaze Anniversary Bowls

If you’re not opting for traditional pearls or natural mother of pearl, you can still gift the happy couple a memorable present by choosing pearly finishes. Anything that comes in the classic ivory or pearly white hues, complete with that pearly iridescence makes a great 30th anniversary gift, starting with handmade ceramic bowls, a set of gourmet knives or a new shimmery memory box in pearly finishes.

Our Pick: The Pearl Glaze Anniversary Bowls

How to Throw the Best 30th Anniversary Party

The Best 30th Anniversary Party
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Whether you’re planning on renewing your vows, looking forward to a lovely evening with friends and family celebrating your love or you’re decided on organizing a surprise anniversary party for your parents, the 30th milestone definitely deserves a festive celebration. Commit to the theme of the major milestone by simply opting for a pearl anniversary party. Let the gorgeous pearls be your inspo and go for a glam white (or alternatively, ivory) party with additional pastel shades of blush pink and a touch of greenery. Think iridescence, elegant glam and pearly hues, all accompanied by the mandatory lush blooms: lilies.

A Pearl-Themed Anniversary Party:

  • The Aesthetic: A modern theme with a touch of glam & whimsy
  • The Color Palette: Ivory, white, blush, natural green & pops of gold
  • The Flowers: Traditional 30th anniversary lilies
  • The Tablescape: Mother of pearl serving plates, pearl napkin rings, mother of pearl coasters and lily centerpieces in slim vases
  • The Cake: Simple, elegant, decorated with sugar pearls
  • The Centerpieces: Delicate lilies in ivory hues
  • The Venue Décor: Ivory candles, pearl fairy lights and crisp white balloons symbolizing pearls
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Keep our To Do List at hand and stay focused on the things that need your attention prior to the fabulous festivities.

30th Anniversary Party Checklist:

  • Decide on the date and time
  • Consider your budget
  • Select your venue
  • Select your theme and shop for your decorations
  • Write down your guest list
  • Design and send out the invitations
  • Decide on catering and drinks
  • Decide on the entertainment & music
  • Book a photographer
  • Schedule speeches and toasts
  • List the order of events

Creative Entertainment Ideas for Your 30th Anniversary Party:

  • A slideshow of your best wedding moments
  • Playing (and dancing on) your wedding song
  • Booking a caricaturist
  • Opting for a photo booth with fun props
  • Creating a photo collage with your best memories together
  • Having the guests sign a creative guest-book
  • Anniversary party games

Romantic Anniversary Ideas for Your 30th Milestone

A milestone as big as your 30th needs a proper celebration. You’ve decided on the gifts and had fun at your anniversary party with friends and family. If you are settled on spending some extra quality time with your one and only, here are a few romantic anniversary ideas that will help you celebrate your 30th anniversary in style:

  • Hop on a cruise and enjoy the blue seas
  • Rent a cottage on the beach and enjoy a relaxing long weekend
  • Take an exotic trip and visit a pearl farm
  • Go out for a seafood dinner
  • Join a cooking class or have a cook-off at home
  • Write a love letter to each other
  • Spend the evening reminiscing down the memory lane
  • Recreate your first (or your best) date together
  • Take a boat trip at sunset
  • Recreate your wedding night menu
  • Book a photo-shoot for just the two of you
  • Try a new adventure or hobby together
  • Head out for a spontaneous road trip and stay at a charming hotel
  • Renew your vows
  • Revisit the memory box from your wedding: from your photos to that romantic wedding favor box you kept all these years, there’s lots to remember about your Big Day

And there you have it: everything from the best anniversary gifts for him, the most elegant anniversary gifts for her and the perfect gifts for parents, plus a range of fun anniversary ideas to do and plan for your 30th milestone – with the anniversary party of your dreams to match!



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